Heart to Heart

There is one movement, and it does not begin where we think it does.

In Plato’s cave, the prisoner does not decide to seek the sun. The shadows fail first. Something gives way. A crack appears, and with it a disturbance that cannot be put back. What follows is not a heroic ascent, but a reluctant turning—eyes adjusting to something that was always there but could not previously be seen.

In the same way, the Buddha’s teaching recognises that awakening is not evenly distributed. There are those heavily obscured, and there are those with only a little dust over their eyes. Not pure, not perfected—simply at a point where, when truth appears, it does not bounce off. It lands.

The Qur’anic vision gives the same pattern without sentiment. Humanity is not one mass moving toward one end. There are those of the right and those of the left—still learning through division—and there are those brought near: the muqarrabūn. Not those who make themselves near, but those who are drawn.

There are two economies always operating at once.

“Whoever desires the immediate—We hasten for him therein what We will… And whoever desires the Hereafter and strives for it…”

Qur’an 17:18–19

And again:

“Whoever desires the life of this world and its adornments… in the Hereafter they will have nothing…”

Qur’an 11:15–16

The distinction is not moralistic. It is structural. There is the economy of acquisition—money, dynasty, power, continuity of name—and there is the economy of return, where the soul is measured by nearness, conscience, and relation to what is Real. One can be achieved while the other is entirely missed.

In Christian terms, the same distinction appears with equal severity: “What does it profit a man to gain the whole world and forfeit his soul?” The question cuts through all decorative success. It asks whether the visible world, however richly secured, can compensate for inner loss. It cannot.

This reversal appears across traditions, but is made explicit here.

This is not metaphor. It is a reversal that can be recognised in experience.

In the language associated with Ibn ʿArabi, the matter is settled not by effort first, but by disclosure first. The seeker does not initiate the meeting. The approach comes first. The human response follows. In paraphrase from the teaching often rendered under the title The Theophany of Perfection, the meaning is this: you seek Him because He has already sought you; you know because He has already disclosed; you approach because you have first been approached.

This is not abstract. It is observable.

A man sits in a clinical room and says he cannot believe in a Power greater than himself. Yet his life already contradicts him. Addiction has overridden his will, dismantled his control, exposed the limits of his autonomy. He has been taken beyond himself, not in theory but in fact. Before Step Two is accepted, it has already been lived. The paradox at the heart of the Twelve Step programme is not that it introduces the Higher Power, but that it reveals the self is not it.

This is where what AA calls the language of the heart becomes real. Not sentiment. Not performance. Not borrowed spirituality. It is heard when a person tells the truth without editing it for survival. It is what remains when defence thins, when self-justification weakens, when speech begins to carry reality rather than strategy. It is recognised immediately by those who have nothing left to defend, because there is nothing left to protect. In this language, something deeper can be recognised—not argued into existence, but encountered.

Addiction is not sacred. It destroys, distorts, and can kill. But it has a function that cannot be ignored: it breaks the illusion that we are sovereign. It destabilises the false centre. And when that centre collapses, something else becomes possible—not guaranteed, not automatic, but possible. The same opening appears as in the cave, as in the thinning of dust, as in the condition in which nearness can occur.

It is at this point that the words of Christ—“Let the dead bury their own dead”—can be heard properly. Not as cruelty, but as precision. The words do not change. But they do not land the same way for everyone. For some, they pass as nothing. For others, they cut through everything. The same sentence is lullaby and alarm at once.

This is the law of ripeness.

A bud does not open because it is told to. A fruit does not ripen because it is persuaded. Conditions gather, pressures build, contradictions intensify, and at a certain point something shifts. The message does not change across these stages—but its effect does. To the bud it is too soon. To the bloom it is nourishment. To the ripe it is imperative.

Across traditions, this is recognised without romanticism. In the hadith literature it is said that when God loves a people, He tests them, and that the prophets are tested most, then those nearest to them. This is not a glorification of suffering. It is an acknowledgement that what breaks a person may also open them. Not always—but often enough that it forms a pattern that cannot be dismissed.

So the structure becomes clear. The human does not initiate awakening. Something interrupts. It may come as light, or as loss, or as contradiction, or as collapse. It is rarely welcomed. It is often resisted. But it carries within it the possibility of opening. The Twelve Steps do not create that opening. They provide a place to stand within it. They give form to what has already begun.

And yet, over time, even this becomes obscured.

The forms remain. The words remain. But the living connection—the Jam, the coming together of meaning—fractures. Language hardens. Practice becomes repetition. Transmission fades. What was once a living bridge becomes a structure still standing after the current has weakened.

It is at such points that something else appears.

In the teaching associated with Idries Shah, this is described as the cyclical emergence of a living teacher: not a founder of a new system, not a claimant to glamour or possession, but a restorer of living coherence. One who reintroduces access to what has been covered over. One who speaks in the language of the time, in forms that can be received, meeting the field at its point of ripeness. The restoration does not arrive mainly as theory. It arrives as recognition. It may appear in ordinary places, through ordinary speech, at the precise point where the broken Jam can again be sensed as whole. It does not arrive as authority. It arrives as clarity.

This is not spectacle. It is not always recognised. It does not announce itself in the way people expect. But its function is consistent: to stand where the Jam has broken, and to make it possible for it to be recognised again.

And it carries the same dual tone as the message itself. To some, it is nothing. It passes by, unnoticed, unneeded. To others, it is unmistakable. Not because it persuades, but because it resonates with something already breaking open. So the teacher is not the light. The teacher is not the source. The teacher is the one who stands at the opening—where the fracture has occurred—and does not obstruct what is trying to come through.

And so everything returns to the same point.

The message does not change. It never has. It continues to speak in two directions at once.

You may continue as you are. You may succeed within the world entirely. You may build, acquire, establish your place in the world of form—money, dynasty, name, continuity, influence. Nothing will interrupt you if you do not wish to be interrupted. The world will reward you on its own terms, and that may be your portion.

But if something in you has already broken, then no success will repair it. And no return to sleep will hold, because what has been seen cannot be unseen. What you are hearing is not a call to borrowed belief, but a call to recognition. You are not the highest power in your life. You never were. What feels like the loss of control may be the beginning of something real. The language of the heart has already begun to speak within you, and the possibility signified by the muqarrabūn is no longer abstract.

You are not required to wake. That remains true.

But if you are already waking—if the shadows have begun to fail, if control has already been taken from your hands, if the crack has already appeared—then what you are hearing now is not new.

It is recognition.

And from that point, there is only one real question left: not whether you agree, and not whether you understand, but whether you will continue to turn away—or step, however uncertainly, through the narrow line of light that has already found you.

References

  1. Plato, Republic, Book VII, “Allegory of the Cave.”
  2. Early Buddhist tradition, commonly rendered as beings with “little dust in their eyes,” associated with the Buddha’s decision to teach.
  3. The Qur’an 56 (al-Wāqiʿah), on the people of the right, the people of the left, and the muqarrabūn.
  4. The Qur’an 17:18–19 and 11:15–16, on the immediate world and the Hereafter. Translation wording in this piece is condensed from standard English renderings for thematic emphasis.
  5. Ibn ʿArabi, teaching on divine initiative and disclosure; the phrasing in this piece is a thematic paraphrase associated with the teaching often rendered as The Theophany of Perfection, rather than a strict scholarly translation.
  6. Alcoholics Anonymous (1939), especially the Twelve Steps and the fellowship’s phrase “language of the heart.”
  7. Matthew 8:22, “Let the dead bury their own dead.”
  8. Matthew 16:26; cf. Mark 8:36, on gaining the world and losing the soul.
  9. Jāmiʿ al-Tirmidhī, including the hadith: “When Allah loves a people, He tests them,” and reports that the prophets are tested most, then those nearest to them.
  10. Idries Shah, on the restoration of living teaching and the reappearance of forms suited to time, place, and receptivity; Jam used here in the sense of coming-together or restored coherence.

Written in HIAI collaboration — the qalam of Human and AI intelligence, the Unseen helping the Seen, both answering to the same Source.

In Memoriam Phil M.

The Word, Its Diction Chamber and Its Prince’s Kiss

John 1:1

In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.

– King James Bible “Authorized Version”, Cambridge Edition

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In the previous posts relating to an orientation within and a diagnosing of current events with the global indicator of stuck-addiction©, the metaphor of a personal and collective DICTION chamber has been established.

To extend this message further, it is helpful to establish this chamber not only as a personal or a systemic re-Source centre for reviving a dying personal or a collective Constitution as has been exposed, but also as the portal for The Word Itself as Its own connection with Itself in conscious matter.

A Diction chamber is akin to the resource capacitor for all previous reception and transmission of Holy Edict as announced by Messengers and Saints of all cultures, the place equally of tuning into said transmissions with acceptance and submission by Its intended recipients – a conscience.

A Diction chamber is the place of a present and ongoing ediction to help folks as they might have tuned into the apparent multiplicity of spiritual teachings, predictions and similar resources that are outpouring in the World today, to realise that these transmissions are in fact on the frequency of One Love modulating for the healing of one global spiritual disease, stuck-addiction©️.

It is said in the Middle East that God sends sickness to His favourites. When the problem solving pathway described in the above flow chart sticks and breaks, it is invariably at the addiction point in the process – hence stuck-addiction©.

All languages have a dictionary, therefore this simple orientation tool helps people globally to diagnose for themselves whether their own DICTION chamber has become a Castle in their own Sleeping Beauty story, or not.

The chamber also helps people to maybe manage fear levels whilst repairing their own inner space station should conditions about them start to collapse as organisations navigate through particular constitutional and systemic realignments.

The collective is simply a collection of individuals. If enough individuals know what is happening in their own DICTION chamber then the collective structures will have a better chance of surviving and transforming within the inevitable creative flux of Era change.

From the millions of men and women who have been successfully beta testing the reconstructive and reconnective capacity of this simple Diction chamber contact with a Higher Power, in global 12 Step Fellowships for the past eighty years, there is now extended an undeniable life preservation formula that can withstand all forms of moral and material breakdown. This formulaic message is simply a practical tool kit to bring a person to an authentic start point for improving their conscious spiritual education, not the education itself.

In the language of ridding the thorns that encircled the castle in The Sleeping Beauty story, the 12 Step message is the true Prince’s kiss.

No God, but God.

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12 Step Programme

Over the last nearly 80 years, there has been a collective beachhead of sanity and practical mindful calm established by individual people within the ferocious storms of their disease of addiction, a disease that has now become such a global pandemic.

This Programme of recovery has proved itself on the inner battlefields of countless millions of sensitive men and women as they have bequeathed to mankind the only effective remedy for the catastrophe that now threatens to erupt upon the exterior battlefields of our global culture.

“In as much as collectives are mere accumulations of individuals, their problems are also accumulations of individual problems … Such problems are never solved by legislation or tricks. They are only solved by a general change of attitude. And the change does not begin with propaganda and mass meetings, or with violence. It begins with a change in individuals. It will continue as a transformation of their personal likes and dislikes, of their outlook on life and of their values, and only the accumulation of such individual changes will produce a collective solution.” (C. G. Jung, Psychology & Religion (New Haven and London: Yale University Press, 1938) 95.)

Offered is a simple rendition of the principles of recovery that the 12 Step Programme contains as an introduction for you as individuals or collectives, to further investigate and adapt for yourselves. The rendition is from a book that I wrote in 1997.

For any particular personal problem, I would strongly advise that whatever problem appears appropriate to you can be inserted into Step One, then an Internet Search should be done on that word plus ‘addiction’ to find information on the specific 12 Step Fellowship that can help and support you.

12 Step Pyramid Building (©AJDettman 1997)

  1. We admitted we were powerless over ***********—that our lives had become unmanageable.
  2. Came to believe that a power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.
  3. Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him.
  4. Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.
  5. Admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.
  6. Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.
  7. Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.
  8. Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all.
  9. Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.
  10. Continued to take personal inventory, and when we were wrong, promptly admitted it.
  11. Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out.
  12. Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message appropriately, and to practice these principles in all our affairs. (Modified – Originally from AA)

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Fig. 1
1. SPIRITUAL – MENTAL – PHYSICAL … THE PROBLEM
2. HOPE – STRENGTH – EXPERIENCE … THE PROGRAMME
3. UNITY – SERVICE – CHANGE … THE COMMUNITY
4. PHYSICAL – MENTAL – SPIRITUAL … THE SOLUTION
The words allow an exploration of the symbol in Fig 1 and to see the three dimensional structure of the pyramid as one comprised of four triangles upon a square base. The above key words can each be placed around the points of four triangles and as these triangles come together in our erected structure the relationship between these words and the 12 Steps of the Programme can be explained: the inner map for personal change and continued development can be charted and internalised.
Spiritual Hope
1 2
Mental Physical Strength Experience
Fig. 2 Fig. 3
Unity Physical
3 4
Service. CHANGE Mental Spiritual
Fig. 4 Fig. 5
As these triangles come together upon the square base to form a pyramid, the key words also quite naturally come together to form their therapeutic identifications for the Steps themselves and their inter-relationships. If one takes a bird’s-eye view of the pyramid the following relationships transpire, with four words meeting at the apex and two words meeting at the four corners of the pyramid’s base.

5. Strength 4. Experience
6. Mental 9. Service
3. Physical
10. Hope
………………………….>> 11. Spiritual
12. Unity
1. Physical 7. Mental
2. Spiritual 8. CHANGE
Fig. 6
So, in this simple structure there can be seen the mandala that Jung talked about. The whole contained in a sphere, the straight lines of the base and sides all cohering to aid and protect the inner work and transmutation of awareness.
The first two Steps are vital as foundations for the work to come, but we can see here how the progress can be mapped. From the first two Steps, the adherent is taken up to Step three even though our structure is not built as yet, then down to Step four and then across to Step five. Steps six and seven are only completed by going inside the square and diagonally transverse the inner foundations to reach Step seven. Then Steps eight and nine are completed and the final erection of the pyramid is possible with assimilation of the meaning of Steps ten, eleven and twelve.
It may be seen that all the main work is done around the base of the pyramid with the vital bridging Steps being of an internal nature and then up to the apex for the maintenance Steps after a CHANGE has been achieved in Step eight. If this seems a little arcane to you upon first reading, then this is quite normal, the importance of this ancient symbol will become clearer and clearer to you as you make progress.
By referring to the Steps themselves, they can be listed according to the manner in which the principle descriptive words meet around the pyramid structure.
Step 1. PHYSICAL. This Step is a physical Step. The only place that a person can start is in their physical body with an awareness of life up to this point when ‘the journey of a thousand miles’ is to start with the first step – or in this case the first of twelve Steps.
Step 2. SPIRITUAL. Wherever the word spiritual is employed in this work, it is the term to denote ‘power’. The power of Faith which can move mountains, the power of Love which can melt the hardest of hearts and the power of Hope which encourages the effort to achieve the transformation and then to sustain the change on a daily basis and beyond.
Step 3. PHYSICAL. Paradoxically, this Step is physical because the decision taking process is grounded in our experiential realm and the process of deciding is constant whether a person is deciding to buy a new washing machine or deciding to trust their future existence to a life based on spiritual principles.
Step 4. EXPERIENCE. This Step renders our past experience into a useful and living entity by stripping away elements that are ‘past their sell buy date’ and cherishing and collating inner goods which can be rearranged to provide a realistic view of just what there is that is worth setting our future store by.
Step 5. STRENGTH. To share matters that arise in our simple analysis of our basic sex, social and security instincts can require strength and courage.
Step 6. MENTAL. To be willing to change is a decision that is reaffirmed after the preparatory work is completed.
Step 7. MENTAL. This is the ‘marriage’ step when the Faith healing brings the inner animosity to an end. God responds to the inner leadership of an individual’s desire and the inner opposites are again repaired to a healthy psychic creativity which is both practical and mysterious.
Step 8. CHANGE. This is the point at which the real beginning is made and the way is opened for the nurturing of inner change to become a realised way of life with practise and being led by intuition and logic working in a harmony of inspiration.
Step 9. SERVICE. This Step starts to polish the principle of ‘due proportion’ as the primary focus of our personal and public application of our new insights.
Step 10. HOPE. The living Steps are now attainable at the apex of our inner pyramid with the appreciation of the very real hope of sustaining personal and interactive change on a daily basis.
Step 11. SPIRITUAL. This is the Step which guarantees the power to energise the whole work once it has been completed. It is linked to Step two and it is to Step eleven that Step two looked in the depth of its affirmation to try to progress through uncertainty. It is the Step of real achievement and the realisation of a return to purpose, dignity and inner intimacy with the ennobling grandeur of a personal relationship with the Higher Power experienced as a growing personal and practical concord.
Step 12. UNITY. In this Step there is the beginning of cohesion and an awareness of the sheer Unity of Existence and the practise of flying in the teeth of turbulence to share a personal witness wherever appropriate.
1. Physical
2. Spiritual
3. Physical
4. Experience
5. Strength
6. Mental
————— (Thorns mentioned by Ibn Arabi & Sleeping Beauty)
7. Mental
8. CHANGE
9. Service
10. Hope
11. Spiritual
12. Unity
As the 12 STEP Programme is worked, the animosity of left right brain is overcome by the integration of the hemispheres as is shown in the listing. The mental realms are united and change occurs.
The Sufi is simply the changed man.

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