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About Andrew Dettman

Counsellor, Paradox Consultant, Poet, Healer.

Wound Care for the Psyche

Uncover, Then Recover

How wounds heal in the body and in the psyche — an orientation for trauma and end-term addiction work

This is not a theory paper. It is a field report written in plain language: a map distilled from years of sitting with people whose symptoms have reached final-stage intensity—where ordinary diagnostic challenge often fails to touch the underlying wound.

In that territory, the work becomes a kind of last lamppost at the end of a failing street: not because the client is beyond help, but because the usual lights do not reach far enough into the darkness of the lived experience.

All forms of the primary disease of Addiction (Pomm & Pomm Springer 2007 Management Of The Addicted Patient In Primary Care) are presentations of trauma. Because UK doctors are not trained to recognise Addiction as a primary disease across multiple forms, the primary care system is under severe and increasing strain.

Complementary therapists, who are not legally or ethically permitted to formulate medical diagnoses, therefore carry a different kind of responsibility. Their advantage lies precisely here: they are free to research, reflect, and choose carefully which diagnostic frameworks and medical practitioners they elect to complement. That choice is not neutral. It is the implicit offer they make to their clients — an offer the client is free to accept or refuse in practice.

Wounds heal themselves when they are recognised and served properly. This is true even when the body politic and its organs of state, including the NHS, are wounded and failing.

Two Places Where Wounding Occurs

Human beings live in two bodies at once: the physical body, and the body of awareness (psyche). Both can be wounded. Both can bleed. Both heal by the same law.

  • The physical body — the blood-vessel body
  • The body of awareness (psyche) — the energy-vessel body

The image that accompanies this text holds these two bodies side by side so the client can see, at a glance, that the healing principle is shared.

Illustration showing parallel healing processes of the physical body and the psyche, demonstrating the shared principle of uncovering and recovering wounds over time until healing occurs naturally.

How a Physical Wound Heals

A physical wound bleeds blood. If it is wrapped and left, infection can take hold, then poisoning, then collapse. If it is served properly, healing unfolds naturally.

A physical wound is not uncovered once and left open. It is uncovered daily. The dressing is loosened, the wound is briefly exposed, light and air reach it, the condition is checked, and then a clean dressing is applied again.

This rhythm continues until the wound no longer requires protection. No one “heals” the wound. They only serve the conditions in which healing can occur.

Trauma as a Wound to the Psyche

Trauma is a wound to the psyche. The psyche does not bleed blood; it bleeds feeling-energy.

When the psyche is wounded, the organism creates coverings—emergency protections—to prevent overwhelm and preserve survival. These coverings can look like anger, numbness, hyper-control, compulsive behaviours, or substances. These coverings are not chosen; they emerge automatically at the moment of injury.

These are not moral failures. They are battlefield dressings.

Bandages, Not Pathology

A battlefield dressing left on too long can fuse to the wound. The same happens psychically.

Anger, for example, may function as a hardened bandage. When treatment begins to approach the injury beneath, the client may first feel the pain of the bandage itself—not the original wound.

This moment is often mislabeled as “resistance.” In this orientation it is recognised as contact with protection.

Uncover → Recover: The Daily Rhythm in Therapy

Psychic healing follows the same daily rhythm as physical wound care. The bandage is gently lifted, not stripped. A little light reaches the instigating wound. Some air circulates. Feeling-energy moves.

Then—crucially—the bandage is replaced, cleanly. This may happen within a session, between sessions, or across weeks. Leaving the psyche exposed between sessions is as dangerous as leaving a physical wound open.

Replacing the bandage allows integration, nervous system settling, and consolidation. Over time the bandage loosens, thins, becomes unnecessary—and the wound heals itself.

Why Inappropriate Bandage Removal Worsens Trauma

When the mind, in forms of cognitive therapy—whether practitioner-led or self-administered—removes the bandages of psychic protection inappropriately, using models that may work for less devastating symptom presentations than end-term addiction, the trauma can worsen and the addiction illness can intensify.

In this territory, “insight” can become a blade. Explanation can become exposure. Technique can become stripping. The result is not relief, but re-injury.

When the life story narrative is held in such a manner that it builds a container—so the person can see the story within a new attitude—and the bandages of habit are then moved in a paced way to uncover then recover the trauma, here the work serves the process rather than controlling the process, and the trauma begins to heal itself.

When it becomes necessary to view a nodal timeline of events in a sessional manner, the habitual behaviours have already started to shrink. This shrinkage reflects the healing process and the reduction in the size of the inner wounding.

The Proper Role of the Mind

The mind is not the healer. The mind is the attendant.

Its role is to build and protect the container, regulate the uncovering rhythm, ensure the bandage is replaced, and prevent interference with the organism’s natural healing process.

The mind serves best when it protects the process rather than attempts to control it.

When Timeline Work Becomes Safe

Only after the uncover → recover rhythm is established does timeline work become safe and useful. By then, behaviours have already begun to shrink, emotional charge is reduced, and curiosity can replace fear.

The story is no longer a trap. It becomes something that can be held and seen. The client works with their past, rather than being stuck in their past. They then truly work within a new awareness that connects inner and outer, past and future, factual and imagined, in an experience of equanimity.

Visual representation of a person integrating past experience through a new awareness, showing movement from injury toward stability and equanimity.

What the Client Is Invited to Understand

“You were wounded in two places. Both wounds follow the same law. We will not tear your protections away. We will tend them daily. Your system already knows how to heal.”

This restores dignity and removes blame. It replaces urgency with rhythm.

Closing

Uncover — then recover — again and again…

Until the wound no longer needs protection.

Written in HIAI collaboration — the qalam of Human and AI intelligence, the Unseen helping the Seen, both answering to the same Source.

DICTION RESOLUTION THERAPY™ AND JUNGIAN INDIVIDUATION

From I-hav(e)-i-our to Be-hav(e)-i-our™

Carl Jung described individuation as the process by which the ego realises it is not the centre of the psyche. It is a movement away from identification with the conscious “I” toward relationship with the Self — the organising totality of the personality.

What Jung did not provide was a simple, embodied linguistic diagram that shows how this mis-ordering occurs in ordinary psychological life — and how it quietly corrects itself.

This is where Diction Resolution Therapy™ (DRT) enters the conversation.


THE EGOIC ORDER: I-hav(e)-i-our

The left column of the graphic describes the pre-individuated psychic economy.

Identity begins with I. Meaning is sought through having — beliefs, roles, insight, virtue, even spirituality. Experience loops back into I again, reinforcing self-reference. Only at the end does our appear, as a hoped-for sense of belonging or connection.

Clinically, this is the ego organising the psyche around possession and self-definition.

Jung observed that early spiritual or psychological insight often inflates the ego rather than dissolves it. The person feels closer to truth, but truth is still being owned.

This is not pathology.
It is a necessary stage.

In Jungian terms, the ego has not yet withdrawn its projections. The Self is still being approached as an object.


THE DESERT: BREAKDOWN OF THE FALSE ORDER

Between the two columns lies what Jung called the withdrawal of projections — and what DRT recognises as the collapse of mis-sequenced diction.

When “having” no longer delivers meaning, the ego loses its organising power. Old identities thin. Certainties fail. Belonging dissolves.

This is the desert phase.

Jung understood this as a slow differentiation between ego and Self — not a dramatic annihilation, but an attritional surrender. DRT frames this as the psyche losing its grammatical error.


THE INDIVIDUATED ORDER: Be-hav(e)-i-our™

The right column shows the post-individuated sequence.

BE now stands first — existence prior to identity. hav(e) becomes functional, not possessive. I is no longer sovereign, but situated. our emerges naturally, not as a goal but as a consequence.

Nothing has been added.
Nothing has been taken away.
Only the order has changed.

This is individuation made visible.

Where Jung spoke of the ego entering relationship with the Self, DRT shows how this is lived linguistically, behaviourally, and relationally. Behaviour is no longer driven by acquisition of meaning, but by participation in it.


CLINICAL SIGNIFICANCE

This distinction matters because therapy cannot force individuation.

DRT aligns with Jung’s insistence on patience, symbol, and process. The therapist does not correct the client’s order. The work holds the space long enough for the false sequence to exhaust itself.

When BE precedes I, behaviour reorganises without instruction.

Belonging (our) is not pursued.
It is discovered.


IN ESSENCE

  • I-hav(e)-i-our describes ego-centred life, even when spiritual.
  • The desert dismantles the illusion of possession.
  • Be-hav(e)-i-our™ shows individuation as right order, not self-improvement.

Jung named the destination. Diction Resolution Therapy™ diagrams the passage.

The door opens, not because the ego has learned the right words, but because language itself has fallen back into truth.


Written in HIAI collaboration — the qalam of Human and AI intelligence, the Unseen helping the Seen, both answering to the same Source.

Distinction otherwise Extinction

A person cannot change whilesoever the distinction between a feeling and an emotion is lost.

This is why most of the therapeutic efforts of professionals result only in short term appearance of remedy at best, in reality patients/clients get worse which breaks the principle of “do no harm”, thus the well intentioned therapists burn out whilst the scallywags and celebrity pundits make reputations out of plaiting fog.

Further Posts

This blog begins anew
The publishing of my heart
The lightning of my lightening load
The thunder of my God’s sneeze
Across the shaken dust
Of our mortal immortality

http://youtu.be/u9Dg-g7t2l4

There are 66 posts.

The blog grew organically as a spontaneous collaboration between the visible and the Invisible and as such can be read from the first post through to the sixty sixth as one might embark upon a brisk walk. There are links to be pondered afterward if the material has sparked any interaction.

Please see https://lifeisreturning.com for all further posts. Thanks 🙂

We can remember the warning from Jacob Boehme: “Boehme has a note before one of his books in which he asks the reader not to go further and read the book unless he is willing to make practical changes as a result of the reading. Otherwise, Boehme says, the book will be bad for him….” From the Forward of a book A Little Book On The Human Shadow by Robert Bly.

The Word, Its Diction Chamber and Its Prince’s Kiss

John 1:1

In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.

– King James Bible “Authorized Version”, Cambridge Edition

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In the previous posts relating to an orientation within and a diagnosing of current events with the global indicator of stuck-addiction©, the metaphor of a personal and collective DICTION chamber has been established.

To extend this message further, it is helpful to establish this chamber not only as a personal or a systemic re-Source centre for reviving a dying personal or a collective Constitution as has been exposed, but also as the portal for The Word Itself as Its own connection with Itself in conscious matter.

A Diction chamber is akin to the resource capacitor for all previous reception and transmission of Holy Edict as announced by Messengers and Saints of all cultures, the place equally of tuning into said transmissions with acceptance and submission by Its intended recipients – a conscience.

A Diction chamber is the place of a present and ongoing ediction to help folks as they might have tuned into the apparent multiplicity of spiritual teachings, predictions and similar resources that are outpouring in the World today, to realise that these transmissions are in fact on the frequency of One Love modulating for the healing of one global spiritual disease, stuck-addiction©️.

It is said in the Middle East that God sends sickness to His favourites. When the problem solving pathway described in the above flow chart sticks and breaks, it is invariably at the addiction point in the process – hence stuck-addiction©.

All languages have a dictionary, therefore this simple orientation tool helps people globally to diagnose for themselves whether their own DICTION chamber has become a Castle in their own Sleeping Beauty story, or not.

The chamber also helps people to maybe manage fear levels whilst repairing their own inner space station should conditions about them start to collapse as organisations navigate through particular constitutional and systemic realignments.

The collective is simply a collection of individuals. If enough individuals know what is happening in their own DICTION chamber then the collective structures will have a better chance of surviving and transforming within the inevitable creative flux of Era change.

From the millions of men and women who have been successfully beta testing the reconstructive and reconnective capacity of this simple Diction chamber contact with a Higher Power, in global 12 Step Fellowships for the past eighty years, there is now extended an undeniable life preservation formula that can withstand all forms of moral and material breakdown. This formulaic message is simply a practical tool kit to bring a person to an authentic start point for improving their conscious spiritual education, not the education itself.

In the language of ridding the thorns that encircled the castle in The Sleeping Beauty story, the 12 Step message is the true Prince’s kiss.

No God, but God.

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A Bridge of Light

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The Humber Bridge

Often the behaviour of others can be disconcerting, especially when it is received as offensive, threatening, or even clearly criminal.

The sickness of stuck-addiction© is ubiquitous and understanding that people around you may be spiritually sick can help disarm your reaction patterns to others and thus help to stop the unwitting spread of the disease through and in you.

We all live simply, on a basic existential level, in two places. We live inside our heads and hearts in a psyche that has a metaphorical skin and we live outside in a body that has biological skin, experiencing our interactions with people, places and things through both skins.

We dress both “skins” with clothes. Our inner skin is dressed with memorial rôles and habits and our outer skin with material garments suitable to moods, jobs and outer conditions.

When people are working with implements that cause friction, say digging with a spade, then the outer skin reacts to that attrition to try to protect itself. Hard skin is formed and that hard skin is called a callous.

When people experience friction and attrition in their psyche, especially when in early development, then that psychic skin reacts exactly the same as biological skin, it tries to protect itself. The psyche throws out hard and aggressive behaviour, such behaviour is often categorised as callous.

The defining factor in both the inner and outer situation that is commonly misunderstood, is that neither the callous skin nor the callous behaviour that is formed is subject to a conscious control mechanism.

A callous, whether physical or behavioural, is dead skin.

When the callous is behavioural, the person becomes trapped in sub-culturalised reactions that alienate them in an arrested development that makes their sensitivity, the very thing that the callous was vainly trying to protect and the thing needed for rehabilitation, virtually impossible to access.

So, beware of simply judging the callous behaviour of others as being wholly in the control of the perpetrator. Bad behaviour is appalling, truly manners do make the man, but stuck-addiction© is now beginning to infect very large numbers of people and cultural systems.

Star Gate

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(at the Rumi Festival 2013, Beshara)

One becomes Two,
The Throne of reunion
opens a portal
A star-gate serving mankind
Reproducing Creation
as Three dimensional,
ordinary Love
a Fourness of yin and yang;
Offspring onspringing
joy into Heart, my darling Sa’ida,
life is returning ….

Ordinary Magnificence

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In this moment … Will

Of this moment … Union
Delivering this moment … Mother Earth
Child of this moment … New you
What is this moment?.. Magnificent
Where is this moment?.. y axis
Where is matter as time?.. x axis
Where is Man?.. xy engendered coordinates
Where is God?.. In Be Still
the Holy xy Intersection
The centre of the crossroads
Where The God, the moment,
time and Man meet
in being, your Human ordination.

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Addendum from the future 25/12/17

It is not so important to intellectually analyse the date of Christmas, the taking over of cultural anniversaries of bygone days by the rulers of the simply gone days.

What may be important is a sense of co-ordination, a sense of learning the facts of life from a place of mastering and marrying simple material necessities that carry a mystical potential of a singular significance for you.

Living contemporary teachers appear at precisely the time that is possible for them to appear, their only difficulty always is the reluctance of people to let go of their other temporary teachers.

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Rumi Festival, Chisholme House 2013

Rumi Festival, Chisholme House 2013: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Ey-ufO-teQ

When real knowledge arrives it is new (ne-w), there is a hyphen (no-w), there is no double You, there is only you, now new.

Lovers say, ‘only you’, songs are written, the echo always returns truthfully.

I say to you all now, there’s only you, the echo returns to me instantly, New, try it, go on, say it to the Universe …. ‘only You’ …. listen to the instantaneous echo ….

God makes this world anew every instant and says to you, for you, there’s only you …. The ‘if not for you’ from the Qur’an.

The “w” is necessary for the mechanics of material creation, for the dilly dally of the lover and beloved, for the drama of the world show that is never boring, always wonderful.

If you feel that there is nothing new under the sun for you, then you are stuck.

This whole world is created just for you, only you.

Only …. just …. got here
…………………….. saw it
…………………….. managed it
…………………….. bought it
…………………….. realised for myself
Only You ….

When I truly say, “there’s only You”, to Love,
There’s only the ‘only me’ that disappears …
In the Echo

(The Chisholme Institute does not endorse or necessarily agree with anything written here or elsewhere on this blog but the video is shared with their permission)

Friends at the Threshold

Meeting friends
Similar beginnings
Similar ends
Blessings of love
Returned for love
Holding the note
The healing frequency that
Keeps the threshold open
A coherence, a presence
Beautiful essence
Reaching everywhere.

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